editSteps
- 1Be more confident.
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www.happyprofession.com - 2For being confident you'll have to take care of your emotional well being, i.e you'd feel bad, good, escatic, devastated at times, but you'll have to get over them and devise ways (depends upon your personality) to stay calm and feel good most of the time.
- 3Achieve a state of calm, by finding and focusing on favourable tenets of your current situation as a habit.
- 4Watch out for your position, vis-a-vis other people within your current social situation. Guys who are higher up the order would be the most attractive ones. But, not always are girls attracted to the higher guys. Sometimes, a girl is attracted to one that others are not as much. She has her guy mostly to herself then.
- 5Being up the order could be a huge task, like earning millions, having a great muscular body, being highly intelligent and so on. If you closely observe people, who achieve these and are recognized for their achievements, ooze confidence in their behaviour but if you have everything and still are not happy with yourself and lack confidence you would still rank pretty low on social standing. So your current state of summarises your situation, that is why having positive frame of mind and being confident is so important and to some extent is delinked with absolute achievements.
- 6Develop emotional and social intelligence. Be aware of your own emotions, try to understand other people's emotions and behave accordingly. In order to achieve that level of intelligence you'll have to see through the content of the arguments/chat and focus on behavioral aspects of persons who are engaged in them.
- 7Smile and let your confidence be visible.
- 8Be open to others, don't hesitate, stumble or flinch.
- 9You don't have to be neurotic but surely can be careful about your appearance, in short try and dress smartly.
- 10When with women don't falter and imbibe all the above defined characteristics as naturally as you can.
- 11Socialize as much as you can.
- 12You cannot attain a great personality at once, take one step at a time.
- 13Keep learning about the world, like how things work, what is needed to do a particular job; that would help you increase confidence.
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editTips
- Don't indulge in self pity no matter what comes your way.
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- Don't panic on petty matters.
- Don't be overwhelmed by failure to impress women, keep trying.
editWarnings
- Being confident doesn't mean being narcissist, egoistic or conceited.
- You may have a completely opposite personality and might fail to get any of the suggested characterisic. In this case, you will not have the ability to arouse many women. This is the kind of guy who will find HER, and trust me, you'll want to keep her!
- "Be open to others, don't hesitate, stumble or flinch." In some cases, these behaviors may land you the girl. However, Be. Careful.