Desire

Women are sexual. We all know that women are sexual people. Women want to have sex. We know there are women wanting to get laid out there. So where are they, exactly? Women are angry at guys for not making more of an effort and recognizing that women want guys as much as guys want women. But you’ve had them reject you and say no. Why would they sabotage having sex with guys they like, when they want to have sex? Figuring out what’s going on here helped me understand, when it comes to dating, girls are human, too. Women make mistakes. Have you ever watched Lady Gaga and seen how open she is regarding sex? It’s like she is speaking for every woman on the earth; she wants women to be more free and open. It’s true. The world is filled with women who are wanting to get laid, although that seems hard t0 believe, sometimes. Women who are interested in sex are EVERYWHERE! Girls sometimes reject a guy, then kick themselves later, not knowing why they did it. I learned this one day when I was chatting to a female friend of mine who was about to get on a bus. This guy walked up to her and said, “You’re so beautiful.” And she said, “Thanks, I’ve got a boyfriend.” And then she got on the bus. The thing was, she didn’t actually have a boyfriend. She just said it as an unconscious, nervous reaction, because she was surprised. When you’re approaching girls, and you want to avoid this happening to you, I recommend that you give girls a little bit of time to warm up. Sometimes both guys and girls say things we don’t mean. This happens even more often when we’re nervous. A lot of shy guys will tell you they make all kinds of mistakes when they’ve gone up to talk to a girl, and they’ve kicked themselves later, because they don’t know how whatever they said came out of their mouth. There are a lot of guys who sabotage their efforts with girls. They want to meet girls, or they get a girl who wants to have sex, and then they totally screw it up. So this problem isn’t just with girls. Guys have the same problem. What’s important is to realize that girls, being human, will make mistakes and do and say things they don’t mean. It’s important to be patient with them and give them time. Never get angry at anything a girl does, particularly when she rejects you, because often it has nothing to do with you at all. It might have to do with the day she is having, or some other situation in her life. Or she just might be a little bit shy or nervous. Make her feel relaxed. I tend to make it as easy as possible for girls to get relaxed and feel comfortable, because I know that there are lots, and lots, and lots of women just wishing they could have some sex tonight. I want to create an environment that takes a lot of the pressure off of them and has women expressing what they really feel. I find it can take a little bit of time for a girl to get out of her head – much the same as it does with a guy – and warm up and start expressing her real personality. I want to give her the time to do that. I don’t want to just race in, and if she ever gives me a negative initial reaction, I don’t just race away. I like to stick around a little bit, to give her time. I have found sometimes it can take girls a little bit of time to really get in the moment and feel the same way I do. Let’s work on picking up women who want sex. Here are some ideas to get you into the right mindset to attract those women and get laid. Mission: