Desire

study your woman You have to watch and listen to how she behaves. Could she give sailors a run for their money with her vulgar language? Or is she more laid-back, preferring the use of million-dollar words to communicate what she's thinking? Of course, this hint alone determines nothing. I knew many a woman who acted so sweet and innocent in public but became savage beasts and used the most colorful language I've ever heard in the bedroom. And then there were the "tough girl" beauties who put on this independent façade but became quiet little bunnies in the bedroom. Next, how does she like her lovemaking? Does she like to take things slowly and quietly, or is she more of a wild woman who likes to experiment with light bondage and the outdoors? Again, these clues may not set her dirty talk request in stone, but chances are you can delve into the more raunchy language when engaging in raunchier sex. before you start There are certain things you must keep in mind when it comes to dirty talk in order to maintain a happy relationship: Leave it in the bedroom Don't take what happens in the bedroom out in public. That means that you don't get to swear at her or make lewd requests when you're having dinner at a nice restaurant, unless of course she asks you to. Don't disrespect her Even when you do talk dirty, remember that you're living out a fantasy with her. So that doesn't mean that she really thinks she's a bitch or what have you. Rather, she simply enjoys being treated like a bad girl on occasion. Separate fantasy from reality. Explain that's it's playtime Sometimes it's hard for your woman to distinguish if you're just playing around or actually mean the nasty things you're saying. Make sure she feels comfortable with your dirty talk by explaining that it's just a fantasy (see above). Start out slow It's better to be safe than sorry so I strongly recommend that you start out by saying tamer things and with tamer language (for instance, "I've been wanting to get inside you all day"), and slowly moving on to the cruder lingo in time. Remember that you can't generalize about women and assume that she means what you mean when she refers to "naughty language." Turn the tables on her The best way to encourage dirty talk is by assuming a different role in the bedroom. You submit and let her be more dominant. This way you'll get more of a clue as to what she means when she mentions "dirty talk." You need directions and she's the only one who knows the route. How to talk dirty;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;; Next Page: